Obsessive Compulsive Disorder Therapy

Living with OCD can feel exhausting and isolating.

Living with OCD can feel exhausting and isolating.

In my own experience of living with OCD for over 30 years, I understand how intrusive thoughts can feel unwanted, distressing and difficult to let go of, alongside mental or behavioural rituals aimed at reducing anxiety or uncertainty.

This can include checking, reassurance seeking, rumination, mental reviewing or avoidance.

Although these strategies can bring short-term relief, they often become part of a cycle that keeps the difficulties going.

Many people I work with also describe a strong sense of responsibility — as if they must prevent something bad from happening, or get things "just right" before they can feel safe.

Over time, this can lead to significant mental fatigue, self-doubt and a loss of trust in your own thinking.

Therapy offers a space to begin understanding this cycle rather than feeling trapped inside it.

We look at how OCD patterns develop, what keeps them going, and how you might begin to relate differently to intrusive thoughts and anxiety.

The aim is not to get rid of thoughts altogether, but to change your relationship with them so they feel less powerful, less urgent and less central in your life.

Alongside structured psychological approaches, we also make space for the emotional impact OCD can have — including shame, frustration and the feeling of being stuck inside your own mind.

Many people living with OCD also struggle with self-criticism, low self-worth and a tendency to place enormous pressure on themselves. These themes often become an important part of the therapeutic work. ( SELF-ESTEEM & SELF-WORTH THERAPY)

Others find that OCD has affected their relationships, confidence and ability to trust themselves. (RELATIONSHIP THERAPY )

Over time, many people find they are able to respond to intrusive thoughts with more distance, less fear and greater choice in how they act.

Common OCD Difficulties

OCD can take many forms. Some of the difficulties I commonly work with include:

• Intrusive thoughts
• Checking behaviours
• Reassurance seeking
• Rumination
• Mental compulsions
• Contamination fears
• Harm OCD
• Relationship OCD
• Sexuality OCD
• Health anxiety and obsessive worries
• Excessive responsibility
• Perfectionism and intolerance of uncertainty

Even when the content of the thoughts changes, the underlying cycle is often remarkably similar.

My Approach

My approach combines professional training with personal understanding of living with OCD.

Alongside exploring practical ways of responding differently to OCD patterns, therapy also helps us understand the emotional experiences that may sit beneath them.

My aim is not simply to help reduce symptoms, but to support you in developing a different relationship with yourself, your thoughts and your emotions.

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• Living With OCD: Why Logic Often Isn't Enough

Free Initial Consultation

I offer a free 10–15 minute telephone or video consultation to answer any questions you may have and help you decide whether working together feels right for you.